Today, we reveal another mind game described in the Mind Games section of the iSeducer app:
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Title:
The "Comparator"
Her mind game:
Let’s say her best friend’s name is Jenny. She constantly says things like “Jenny's boyfriend does all kinds of things for her. He treats her fantastically, buys her gifts, takes her to expensive restaurants…And you never do as much for me”.
Her goal:
To make you feel guilty and manipulate you into doing thing for her that you don’t want to do.
How to respond:
Tell her “Well, if he is so fantastic, ask her if you could borrow him for a while”. Alternatively, you can tell her “Well, if he does it for her, it does not necessarily mean he will do it for you”. In other words, you need to stop this kind of behavior as fast as you can. Do not set a precedent indicating that you will tolerate comparisons to other men, because that is a sure road to being dumped for someone else.
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