Today, we reveal one of the games described in the Mind Games section of the iSeducer application:

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Title:
The “Flake”

Her mind game:
She sets up a time to meet you, but then cancels last minute or doesn’t show up and doesn’t call to apologize for not being there.

Her goal:
To make you feel like you’re unimportant in her eyes to make you chase her more.

How to respond:
Two methods: prevention and course correction. First, to prevent this from happening, never set a date with a time. Just say that you don’t know how your day will turn out, so you will call her a couple of hours before you meet her. When you call her that day, if you get her voicemail say “I’m sorry, there’s been a change of plans. I can’t make it tonight. Maybe we’ll do it some other time”, because if she wanted to see you, she would have picked up the phone. Second, if you did set up the date and she did not come, DO NOT call her that day. Wait at least 24 hours and then call her and APPOLOGIZE. Say “I’m sorry I could not make it to the date yesterday. I promise I will make it up to you. You’re not too mad, are you?”. Since, she doesn’t know if you were where you were supposed to meet her, she will think you FLAKED ON HER! Boom, the situation is reversed!

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The following is a screenshot of this mind game from the iSeducer iPhone app: